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Friends with Kids (2012) poster

2012 · comedy · drama · romance

Friends with Kids

Directed by Jennifer Westfeldt1h 40m2012

In the wake of their friends' marriages and eventual offspring, longtime pals Julie and Jason decide to have a child together without becoming a couple. By becoming "time-share" parents, they reason, they can experience the joys of parenthood without significantly curbing their personal freedom. However, when Julie and Jason both become involved with others, they discover that they secretly harbor romantic feelings for each other.

Our read: Friends with Kids (2012) reads as a warm, kinetic, grounded comedy · drama · romance entry — gentle in intensity, intimate in scope, measured in temperature, ambivalent in outlook.

Movie DNA

Warm, kinetic, gentle comedy / drama, grounded in texture. Ambivalent, intimate, measured.

ElsewhereIMDb6.144kRT66%Metacritic55
  • brisk
  • gentle
  • intimate
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DNA · twelve axes

How Friends with Kids feels to watch.

Each axis is scored by hand, not from votes or genre averages. The bar uses the film's own colours.

MoodHeavy ↔ Cosy
PacingSlow-burn ↔ Kinetic
IntensityGentle ↔ Extreme
WeirdnessConventional ↔ Surreal
HopeNihilistic ↔ Redemptive
StakesIntimate ↔ Epic
HumourNone ↔ Broad
RealityGrounded ↔ Fantastical
DensitySparse ↔ Twisty
WarmthCold ↔ Tender
AuteurTransparent ↔ Signature
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What watching it is actually like.

“You want a talky NYC rom-com about platonic parenting and mismatched adult timing.”

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Date nightWith friendsSoloWith parentsKids around

Skip it tonight — Skip if friends-to-lovers inevitability or thirtysomething relationship angst feels tired.

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