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Our Friend (2019) poster

2019 · drama · romance

Our Friend

Directed by Gabriela Cowperthwaite2h 4m2019

After learning that his terminally ill wife has six months to live, a man welcomes the support of his best friend who moves into their home to help out.

Our read: Our Friend (2019) reads as a sombre, steady, grounded drama · romance entry — measured in intensity, intimate in scope, tender in temperature, ambivalent in outlook.

Movie DNA

Sombre, steady, measured drama / romance, grounded in texture. Ambivalent, intimate, tender.

ElsewhereIMDb7.316kRT85%Metacritic57
  • sombre
  • tender
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DNA · twelve axes

How Our Friend feels to watch.

Each axis is scored by hand, not from votes or genre averages. The bar uses the film's own colours.

MoodHeavy ↔ Cosy
PacingSlow-burn ↔ Kinetic
IntensityGentle ↔ Extreme
WeirdnessConventional ↔ Surreal
HopeNihilistic ↔ Redemptive
StakesIntimate ↔ Epic
HumourNone ↔ Broad
RealityGrounded ↔ Fantastical
DensitySparse ↔ Twisty
WarmthCold ↔ Tender
AuteurTransparent ↔ Signature
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What watching it is actually like.

“You want a true-story tearjerker about friends showing up when cancer hits.”

ends bittersweetit leaves you shakena rollercoastergrips by minute 8attention 3/5feels its length
Date nightWith friendsSoloWith parentsKids around
Heads-upsuicide theme

Skip it tonight — Terminal illness dramas feel manipulative or you cannot do crying tonight.

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