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The 40-Year-Old Virgin (2005) poster

2005 · comedy · romance

The 40-Year-Old Virgin

Directed by Judd Apatow1h 56m2005

Andy Stitzer has a pleasant life with a nice apartment and a job stamping invoices at an electronics store. But at age 40, there's one thing Andy hasn't done, and it's really bothering his sex-obsessed male co-workers: Andy is still a virgin. Determined to help Andy get laid, the guys make it their mission to de-virginize him. But it all seems hopeless until Andy meets small business owner Trish, a single mom.

Our read: The 40-Year-Old Virgin (2005) reads as a warm, kinetic, grounded comedy · romance entry — measured in intensity, intimate in scope, measured in temperature, ambivalent in outlook.

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Warm, kinetic, measured comedy / romance, grounded in texture. Ambivalent, intimate, measured.

ElsewhereIMDb7.1498kRT85%Metacritic73TMDB6.47k
  • warm
  • brisk
  • intimate
  • funny
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How The 40-Year-Old Virgin feels to watch.

Each axis is scored by hand, not from votes or genre averages. The bar uses the film's own colours.

MoodHeavy ↔ Cosy
PacingSlow-burn ↔ Kinetic
IntensityGentle ↔ Extreme
WeirdnessConventional ↔ Surreal
HopeNihilistic ↔ Redemptive
StakesIntimate ↔ Epic
HumourNone ↔ Broad
RealityGrounded ↔ Fantastical
DensitySparse ↔ Twisty
WarmthCold ↔ Tender
AuteurTransparent ↔ Signature
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“You want heartfelt Apatow comedy with awkward charm, not just gross-outs.”

ends upliftingyou’ll feel glowing aftersteady all the waygrips by minute 10attention 2/5earns its length
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Heads-upexplicit sexcringe humiliation

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