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2005 · comedy · drama · romance

Trust the Man

Directed by Bart Freundlich1h 43m2005

Overachieving actress Rebecca must come to grips with her failing marriage to stay-at-home dad Tom. While Rebecca's slacker brother Tobey can't seem to commit to his aspiring-novelist girlfriend, Elaine. As both relationships spin out of control, the two couples embark on a quest to rediscover the magic and romance of falling in love in New York.

Our read: Trust the Man (2005) reads as a warm, steady, grounded comedy · drama · romance entry — gentle in intensity, intimate in scope, measured in temperature, ambivalent in outlook.

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Warm, steady, gentle comedy / drama, grounded in texture. Ambivalent, intimate, measured.

ElsewhereIMDb5.79kRT30%Metacritic43
  • warm
  • gentle
  • intimate
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DNA · twelve axes

How Trust the Man feels to watch.

Each axis is scored by hand, not from votes or genre averages. The bar uses the film's own colours.

MoodHeavy ↔ Cosy
PacingSlow-burn ↔ Kinetic
IntensityGentle ↔ Extreme
WeirdnessConventional ↔ Surreal
HopeNihilistic ↔ Redemptive
StakesIntimate ↔ Epic
HumourNone ↔ Broad
RealityGrounded ↔ Fantastical
DensitySparse ↔ Twisty
WarmthCold ↔ Tender
AuteurTransparent ↔ Signature
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“You want Upper West Side couples dramedy about marriage stalling and rekindling.”

ends bittersweetit stays with yousteady all the waygrips by minute 12attention 3/5earns its length
Date nightWith friendsSoloWith parentsKids around

Skip it tonight — Skip if whiny Manhattan relationship talk and low-key conflict bore you.

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